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"I INTENDED TO DO IT, BUT..."
By Robert Foster

One morning, Farmer Jones told his wife he was going out immediately after breakfast to plow the back pasture. But the tractor needed oil, so he went to the shop to get some. On the way he noticed the pigs weren't fed - so he proceeded to the corn crib.

The feed sacks in the corn crib reminded him that his potatoes were sprouting. On the way to the potato shed, he passed the wood pile and remembered his wife wanted firewood for the kitchen stove. By the time he had picked up a few sticks, an ailing chicken passed by. He dropped the wood and reached to help the mother hen.

When lunchtime arrived, the frustrated farmer was asked by Mrs. Jones: "Did you get the south pasture plowed?" "Nope," was his reply, "I didn't even get the John Deere oiled. I intended to, but..."

How many times have we intended to do something important, but were distracted and never accomplished it? This is called "The Tyranny Of The Urgent." Whenever we are able to eliminate, delegate, procrastinate or "forget" some work, something else always arises to take its place.

Consultant Larry Barkan says, "There is no such thing as 'time management.' I hope that statement doesn't shock you who have attended time management seminars, read time management books or tried somehow to reduce your hopelessly overburdened work schedule. We cannot 'manage time,' but we can manage ourselves with respect to time. Work always expands to meet the time available."

Perhaps Farmer Jones needed to listen to the advice given in his Bible: "Make the best possible use of your time" (Colossians 4:5, Phillips). Time must be mastered or it will master us. Here are two simple ideas:

1) Do one thing at a time. I'm reminded of a man named Charley, who felt he could talk on the phone, write a memo, eat his cheese sandwich and check with his computer on the latest Wall Street stock market report. Charley was doing nothing but buying himself stress and distress. If you are having lunch, relax and enjoy it! Practicing doing one thing at a time will create for you an attitude of ease towards even the most chaotic of situations.

2) Do you feel stressed, pressured, or upset? Then slow down. This is not the time to press ahead. "In quietness and confidence shall be your strength" (Isaiah 30:15).


"Take Three on Monday Morning" is written and published by Robert D. and Robert L. Foster. Permission to reproduce with proper credit is freely given and encouraged.

 

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